Good time, not a lot of time

J and I have been going through a rough patch the last few weeks. J has commented that we haven't been spending much quality time together. I gess I've been feeling the same. Between our work stress, real estate stress, and just the general busy-ness of life, the quality of our relationship has suffered.

J's feeling that we don't spend enough time together has been a recurring theme in our relationship. Despite my attempts to make myself more available to her, I have finally come to the realization that I cannot give her any more time than I already am giving, not without compromising my integrity to my self. We are already spending lots of time together and I can not, will not, give more of my time to us.

What I can do however, is improve the quality of the time I spend with her. The issue here isn't about how much time we spend together, but about how we spend the together time we have.